“I started a relationship with a marry women around ten years ago. She was unhappy for years and she left her husband 6 years ago. I'm growing closer to god and my question is how will god look at our relationship now?” - Anonymous
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2 comments:
Hello,
In my personal opinion, God will not look at your relationship with her now any differently than He did before she left her husband.
God deals in absolutes, meaning, He absolutely loves you, her and all. There is no judgment from God towards your choices. Only you judge your choices.
If you fear guilt, that is motivated by you, what you have been taught, and what you have learned through social ideals.
Since God will see your relationship and your choices no differently than he had at any other time in your life, is it possible that your question might really mean, "Am I guilty now?"
This is a fundamental question that we all face, we just ask it in various forms. The answer is "No, you're not guilty."
Considering that God has released you of your self-imposed guilt, would you do the same for yourself?
We are our own jailers. No others but ourselves. You'll find that as soon as you are able to look upon your relationship without judgment or guilt, so will God, in your perception. Align with His vision for your life, and guilt will be a thing of the past.
Blessings,
-Todd
Hello Dear Heart,
Ten years ago, when you began your relationship, did you feel that God condemned it or blessed it? What would make you feel that God has “changed His mind” about it now? Once you come to experience who God is (once you come to experience God), you’ll know how God will “look” at your relationship, not only for now but for all time.
Spirit (God), does not judge, for in the spiritual realm, there is no “right” vs. “wrong.” There is no duality of existence of any kind for there is no separation. Judgment, condemnation, blame, blessing, acquittal, excuse, validation, justification, etc., exit only in the realm of false reality (ego) for it is only ego that insists on separation (leading to any of the above named conditions of being).
The important thing to be aware of is: how do YOU feel about your relationship now? What do YOU see in it? Will your relationship encourage or discourage YOUR growth? Do you hold any blame, resentment, or guilt associated in any way and with any person (most importantly, yourself) regarding your relationship? Do you hold expectations regarding it?
With Light & Love, Ronnie
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